Having an ex girlfriend become really hesitant at the idea of getting back together is a lot more common place than you might think it is. There are lots of situations where the woman seems to want to get back together with her ex boyfriend, but at the same time is very hesitant about actually going through with it. It can be vexing as a man to have to go through this, but there is a good reason why your ex girlfriend is probably hesitant to try and get back together with you and as long as you recognize this, there is usually a way to get around it.

Why is she so hesitant to get back together with you?

One thing that most women are really good at doing, is protecting themselves from getting hurt again. So, if your ex girlfriend feels like she got really hurt while dating you, then it’s only a natural thing for her to hesitate at the thought of putting herself in that situation again. Now, you may not have intended to ever hurt her in any way, but that does not mean that she still was not hurt by the situation or by the way that things played out. You have to accept that this is probably going to be the way that it is, that even if a part of her really wants to be with you again, there’s going to be another part of her that wants to hesitate or avoid the possibility of getting hurt again.

What can you do to overcome this?

Well, here’s one thing that you cannot do if you want to be able to get past this issue and have a really good chance of winning her back. And that is… you cannot allow yourself to get angry or show her any signs that you are impatient about getting back together. Take your time and work on building up her attraction so that she becomes more and more inclined to want to give you a second chance.

Be confident when you are around her or talking to her, but don’t make it seem like you are pushing too much for a reconciliation. She may need a little bit of time before she comes around and warms up to the idea of getting back together. The more relaxed you are about things, and the more attraction you can trigger in your ex girlfriend, the more likely it is that she will decide that it is worth the risk and want to get back together with you.

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