What would you assume is the most overused attempt that men make to win back an ex girlfriend? For most guys, the answer to that question is that they cry and they beg their ex girlfriend to come back to them. They promise that things will change and they make it seem like they can’t go on or even function without her in their life. And this is about the WORST way that a guy can go about trying to win her back. It might seem like the poetic thing to do, but it is not the thing that is going to make her want to come back to you.
You have probably seen a scene like this play out in the movies or on a television show. If you have, then you have to admit that it probably made you a little uncomfortable to see a man act like that. You know what… you might be surprised at how your ex girlfriend sees you when you do this.
Guess what?
She probably is going to feel a little uncomfortable to see you that way. And it probably is not going to make her feel any of the animal desire that you want your ex girlfriend to feel. A funny way that I learned just how bad this is for a guy to do came about when I had a lunch date with several female friends that I have. And I had brought up the issue of what their reaction would be to a man who got down on his knees to beg them to come back.
Their reaction to this made up scenario was stunning. Turns out that every single one of them had been in a situation like that before and they ALL felt the same way. That suddenly… the guy seemed like more of a wimp than anything else and that they did not feel any attraction for him anymore.
Remember, this is how they all reacted, so you can’t assume that it is just one type of woman that feels that way. It seems to be a pretty universal thing.
You do not want to have your ex girlfriend look at you and see a wimp. Or to look at you like she is disgusted with the fact that you are on your knees begging her for a second chance. Not only that, one woman shared that she had broken into laughter when one guy did it because it just seemed so comically pathetic to her. Now, that is ROUGH..
Why does this matter to YOU?
Because there is a MUCH BETTER way to go about it, trust me.
Here’s a little advice on how to get her back without turning into a sniffling mess:
1. Have a little self pride, even if you want to get her back.
You need her respect if you are going to get back together. This is not something that you can skirt around. (Like the pun there?). You have to be able to approach her with a sense of pride, albeit not too much if you want her to take you seriously.
2. Be sorry about what may have happened, but do not grovel.
There is a BIG difference between being sorry for whatever may have gone down that led to the break up and groveling. Sorry is when you let her know that you did wrong and that’s it. Groveling is when you take it to that level of constantly apologizing to her. Don’t grovel.
3. Prove to her that you are the guy she should be with, but not with words.
Words are so cheap and any woman knows this. They learn it when they are teenagers or maybe in college. They all have that ex boyfriend from their past that they trusted and believed and then got hurt. So, if you really want to win back your ex girlfriend, you need to put less emphasis on the talk, and more emphasis on the way that you ACT around her.
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